This is a corner building in Havre de Grace, Maryland. I’ve always had a special place in my heart for Victorian inspired architecture, especially turrets.
My sweetheart took that photo then edited it to make it a little more magical. It’s images like this that inspire me to write stories.
Havre de Grace is a lovely little town. I recommend staying a weekend at a B&B or at a guest house. There aren’t many, because it’s a tiny town, so book ahead.
Also, don’t forget to stop by Bomboy’s for some candy.
The last time we were there for a weekend we lucked upon an arts festival and acquired a lovely hammered copper spoon necklace and some handmade candles and soap. As a sensualist things like handmade soaps and candles with their rich scents and lovely packaging make me happy the way tea parties and hot bubble baths do. Not to mention, supporting small businesses and independent artists. Winning!
There are few things more eternally intimate than a memorable kiss.
Give me a soft, warm kiss on a summer night by a field of fireflies. Lips slightly parted. Eyes closed. Flesh tingling.
Though I have had many more kisses than I can count, there is one that is more memorable than all of the others.
A summer party outside in the country and we’d only just met. The band was playing and lights were twinkling and so were the fireflies. The sound of laughter and boisterous beer drinking was going on all around us. But it all disappeared when he put his lips to mine, like some special lens on a movie camera, making everything blurry at the edges.
It was like drinking a strong, smooth Scotch for the first time. I could feel it, warmth traveling down the center of me. And I would recall it many times later, craving another taste of that soft swell of passion.
I shot this photo back in 2010 and now have some fresh edits for it. Hopefully the feature image will be on the main page. Something weird happened with my last post and the feature image wouldn’t show.
For several years now I’ve been working on a project I call “The Goddess Next Door.” The initial intent was to take photos of the sensual side of various female volunteers, either nude or in some kind of sexy clothing. It was a simple concept meant to show that any woman can have a sensual side, not just those who are professional models. It was meant to humanize sexuality and sexiness, to show that a sensual photo of a woman doesn’t have to make her an object, that she can be self-possessed.
Though I’ve long finished shooting for the project, many blockages to my path have presented themselves. The first of those was my photography style and how it evolved. I thought that if I were going to present a professional book with a certain goal then the photography style ought to be consistent.
This created a self-imposed roadblock to my project. Then my life and artistic focus turned elsewhere for a while. With no clear direction on the project and uncertain of how to present the work, I put it on a back burner for a while. In some ways I felt like I was really letting the models down for doing this, but I also wanted it to be well presented work.
A couple of months ago I was looking over the shoots for the project and it occurred to me that the book could be more than a set of photos about various women. It could be about how they feel, as well. About their bodies and sensuality. And since it has been a few years since I took their photos, maybe it would be good to check in with them and see how their feelings about their bodies has changed or evolved.
Additionally, the book could be about how I have changed and how my photography has evolved.
Between then (the summer of 2011) and now I had a job as a craft designer at a large craft store chain. I was excited and fascinated by the variety of art papers and scrapbooking supplies. Not being much of a scrapbooker I got heavily into visual journaling. I designed journaling styles and taught some journaling classes. It occurred to me just recently that I could do my Goddess Next Door project in that style. Even though it would be much more difficult to lay out and plan than just organizing photos onto a page, it would really add layers. Literally and figuratively.
Above is an example of visual journaling. Combining photos and aspects of journaling may be a good way to organize “The Goddess Next Door.”